Sorry, just venting....

[Shouston]

I want to start off by saying I hope I don't offend anyone, but if I do.... well forgive me. This is not directed towards anyone in-particular I just need to vent.....

I'm so sick of seeing people so disappointed because there not pregnant after only a few months of trying..... You know be in my shoes and try for 8 years and see how disappointed you will be......

I'm so sick of hearing people say well stop trying it will happen. HELLO i don't ovulate....

I'm so sick of hearing well you can always adopt. Have you priced it lately?????

I'm so sick of running into people you haven't seen in a few years asking do you have kids... NO WE DON"T....  we are getting to old to make up the excuses like were still young, or we are enjoying each other... or whatever the hell my mind comes up with at the time...... I HAVE A MEDICAL PROBLEMS!!!

I'm so sick of people saying well you can always borrow mine then you will change your mind about having your own.... NO WE WANT OUR OWN,,,THANKS!!!!!!!!!!

I'm so sick of all these dead beat parents that could care less... Who cares let me pop out a baby and have all the tax payers take care of it..... 

Last but not least,,,,,  IM SO SICK OF PEOPLE SAYING I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL... NO THE HELL YOU DON'T...... Unless your in my shoes you don't know how i feel.... Unless you have dealt with  MANY YEARS of infertility you don't know just how i feel.... 

I have many more I could name and go on all day, but I wanted to make it short and get this off my chest!!!!!

 

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[momof8]

May. 1, 2008 at 4:59 PM Amen!  I went through it for 6 and it was HELL ON EARTH!!!! Some of us du truely understand and my heart aches for you. I Do know how frusterating and infureating the "well meaning" comments and the "inquiries" and "Speculation" of you and your individual issues.  If you want me to kick some butt for you I will!

[sbyrd]

May. 1, 2008 at 5:59 PM

Oh and don't forget the well maybe it's not ment for u to have a kid not everybody needs a kid.Alot of people say ur lucky not to have kids.I hate it when I see people getting pregnant by people they don't even know or they don't even know who the baby daddy is!!!Well at least we have each other and have the same problems so we can experience this hell together and have someone to relate and talk to♥I'm glad we been bff for 14 yrs oh and good luck with af!LOL

 

[helpneededinCt]

May. 2, 2008 at 10:54 AM

HEY I  KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I AM IN THE SAME BOAT AS YOU I Have an underactive thyroid condition and diabetes so i know how it is to have medical problems and not being able to get pregnant my hubby and i have been trying since our DD tuned 2yrs old so i know how you feel

[Baby1114]

May. 3, 2008 at 2:07 AM I can so relate,thanks for stating my feelings in writing for all to see..lol
Wish you the best!

[TryTryAgain]

May. 4, 2008 at 7:17 AM

It can be truly frustrating.  Especially watching others go through it so seemlessly, and the comments don't help...as much as we would love them to.  We may not all be in the same shoes, but we certainly are in the same race...Someone has got to come in first, and someone has to come in last.  Sometimes it's better to finish last than to give up and not finish at all.  There's some food for thought!  :c) 

You are someone truly special, and I don't doubt for a minute that God has a bundle of joy awaiting you...patience is the key.  As hard as that can be to swallow.  :c)  You're going to be alright, just keep praying and doing your WW.

"Delight thyself also in the LORD; and He shall give thee the desires of thine heart." - Psalms 37:4

[W4amircale2]

May. 16, 2008 at 12:55 PM

I know how you feel! TTC 6yrs for #2 and it took 4.5yrs for #1...I know all to well your frustrations!
I love the ones that have no jobs and no ins, and are ttc, and crying after 6 months! 

I know your pain!