Bella's dad decides after 4 months plus with no contact that he is ready to be a daddy any opinions?

 

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colet...
May. 2, 2008 at 8:25 AM Be very careful and do not rely on him now or anytime ever. That way if he decides to dissapear again you won't be left hanging. I would seriously sit down with him in a non confrontatiional manner and speak with him about his initial reluctance to being a father. Get everything straight before you allow this man back into your babies life. NO matter what happens..love her, love her, love her...as long as she has your consistent love and care she will flourish.

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Dani_...
May. 2, 2008 at 10:14 AM Thanks, I am being pretty selective with the amount of time he will get to spend with her. ANd have already told him if he up and disappears again he is done. I will not let him have a third chance. My little girl wakes every morning asking for him. Not necessarily because it is him but maybe just the daddy part. But still hard to deal with. I am wiolling to give him a chance for her, not him. And like I said if he disappears again he is done. No more mrs. Nice mommy. I will be done.

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