Ok!!  I really just want to scream!! My boyfriend and i are finally getting married!! (I'm happy about that) but he doesn't want anything to do with planning the wedding of the honeymoon!?!?! I'm so confused! I can understand some of the wedding stuff but the honeymoon?? Shouldn't he be all it to that??!! It's starting to make me feel kinda bad!! and plus this girl that he used to want so.. freakin bad is talkin to him because she found him on Myspace she just got married and has a kid to but i still just makes me feel uncomfortable am i crazy?? I don't want to say anything to him because i don't want him to think i'm a psycho!! but i don't know i just need a damn punching bag and a good cry!!!

 

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Mar. 22, 2007 at 10:31 PM not good!!! he is not a good choice for you,he will cheat...take my word.hey theres guys out there that will have everything to do with the wedding plans,something is fishy here,he sounds very unattacted,you will end up very lonely,take my word!!! and if you cant talk to him about chatting with another girl,shouldnt that be another sign? hey i get phyco once in a while and im not afraid my guy is gonna think im nuts,or leave me...if that would be the case,he knows where the door is...you have to stop sugar coating everything and let it all out or you'll pay the big price later...you are ignoring all the signs of a big mess waiting to happen...

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Jun. 25, 2007 at 3:34 PM my husband didn't want anything to do with the planning of the wedding. he figured that any choice he made would be vetoed by me in the end so what was the point. lol, he had a point though, who can blame guys for havingbad taste? the only thing he picked out was his tux. as for him talking to an ex or to someone who used to want to be with him i think you should just talk to him about it. my husband did the same thing and  just came out and told him that he didn't need to be talking to her and if that was a problem then maybe i'd just have to start looking up ex's of my own. if your boyfriend really loves and cares about you he won't make it to big of a deal. (i was just going through old posts and i saw this one, i know its a few months late, but hopefully it helps, i definitely don't agree with the other comment posted, dont' let anyone tell you that your boyfriend and you aren't a good match, especially if the person hasn't ever met you or him)

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