those who think they run the world

[joeysmom2000]

 I am sure im not the only mom who goes thru this but its startin to annoy me. i have one kid so i hear from my sisters ur tired or u think u have a headache. bla bla bla. yes i have 1 kid i have 1 boyfriend and no pets. so what, i also have a part time job. my mom has been sick for awhile its not as bad as it used to be. but when somethin goes wrong for some reason she calls me. so i have that added stress. i am sick of people who have more than 1 kid thinkin raisin one kid is easier. its not. no matter how many kids u have its hard and irritating and joyful.

another thing that annoys me is there are people who give  ya crap  no matter what u do. i have had so many people tell me i need to get out and get away from the house for awhile. so i started goin 2 sns with my friends after work. which means that i didnt get home till midnite. and i went to a concert last week. now i have people tellin me i should spend more time at home. well first of when im at sns joey is at home with his dad. and when i went to the concert joey was spendin the nite at his grandparents house. so my son was taken care of. so either way i cant win. its a good thing i dont care.lol it annoys me but that 2 shall pass.

i see it this way i have a 6  1/2 yr boy i love and has everything he needs and pretty much anything he can want. i have a 34yr old bf who drives me insane but i love very much. i have an insane family.lol who knows they can call on me for anything. so if i want to go out and be me for 5 minutes as long as my son is well takin care of, so what. i dont drink like a fish i dont do drugs. i go drink coffe or whatever. live with it i know i will

 

[blackacidevil]

Mar. 23, 2007 at 3:52 PM what they don't know is that you as a parent have to do alot more to entertain your only child than those that have 3 or 4

he's got no one else to play with

[sharrison23]

Mar. 23, 2007 at 5:24 PM

As long as your boyfriend supports you and your son is taken care of try to ignore what everyone else says. I know it's easier said than done.

And maybe your mom calls you because you are the responsible one that she feels like actually listens. I know that is stressful on you.

I would definately keep up my sns nights, everyone has to stay sane and from what i read in your posts you enjoy it!!

[hairstylistmom]

Mar. 23, 2007 at 10:55 PM Don't let it get to ya, you deserve to have time for yourself too!  Sounds to me like you know exactly what's going on in your life, and that's all that should matter.  I just can't understand why people worry so much about other peoples lives, instead of their own.  They need to leave you alone...you sound like a loving, caring, and compassionate mom, girlfriend, and daughter.  Just keep rocking along!

[jakeysmommy]

Mar. 24, 2007 at 11:56 AM

Im in your same boat. My son is 61/2 and believe me since he doesn't have any other siblings he just wants to play with me all the time. Which i love but i rarely get a break and when i do my son is well taken care of also by family. I know exactly how you feel . don't worry about what others think. I try my best not to.