I am upset and feel bad

[ArmyNGMom]

A few years ago I got my tubes tied and last spring my ex fiance left, well I met some one and got married and now DH wants a baby with me. DH knew when we got married that I had my tubes tied and Now it seems like he wants a baby. I really would love to give DH a baby but the insurance will not cover a reverial or invetro. I feel like  I am a shitty wife and a bad person for getting my tubes tied. I just don't know what to do. I been upset and crying since 6:30 this morning when DH brought this up. I think DH deserves some one who can give him a baby other then some one who can't. I really hate my self for getting my tubes tied.

[donna1972]

May. 20, 2008 at 12:01 PM No don't feel bad, you thought everything was going to be ok. And things have changed. It was a desicion made out of feeling secure, I'm beginning to learn nothing is secure anymore. Maybe adopt I was adopted and I turned out great, maybe blemished some but overall great. And  your new man is selfish demanding you give him a baby when he knew your tubes were tied, not to mention insensitive. Is he willing to do the procedure expense out of his own pocket? No one can predict the future if we all could we wouldn't be in the situations we are in now.