The fact that I happen to be gay is only a small part of my life.  One's sexuality is not the defining aspect in my life it just happens to be one aspect.  If you want to judge me, judge me on how I raise my kids, how I conduct myself, how I treat others, and how well I perform my job at work.  Don't judge me on the fact that I just happen to be a lesbian. No I will not corrupt your children, I will not hit on you and what I happen to do in my bedroom is my business no one elses.  But I'm very proud of who I am and I make no apologies.  For many of us being gay has...