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I'm having an affair with my ex mans best friend. We get along great, but we both know that it would have to be kept quiet if anything happened between us because my ex would flip. In your personal opinion, is it worth it to try anyway and see where

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Anonymous
Submitted by Anonymous at 8:03 AM on Dec. 1, 2008
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I'm having an affair with my ex mans best friend. We get along great, but we both know that it would have to be kept quiet if anything happened between us because my ex would flip. In your personal opinion, is it worth it to try anyway and see where

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Submitted by Anonymous at 8:03 AM on Dec. 1, 2008
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  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:11 PM on December 1, 2008

    If hes your ex who cares?

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 2:08 PM on December 1, 2008

    Well you and your ex is no together any more so it should bother him...and how will it get out who would tell.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 5:56 AM on December 2, 2008

    It's a bother if he finds out because my ex is both physically and mentally abusive and if the word got out to even 1 person I'd deffinately feel the wrath of his dumb ass

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:08 AM on December 3, 2008

    I think you answered your own question in the last comment.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 4:23 PM on December 3, 2008

    If its real and true and love, then yes you should go for it.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 7:20 PM on December 3, 2008

    similar situation my family said- You are playing with fire.
    Now I am happily married & my ex has another victim for his pursuits. (I waited a year after I left him then7mo preg w his child, now I am married to his bro--ex never bothers us)

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 3:50 PM on December 7, 2008

    It's always best to get everything out in the open asap... if you really think this may go somewhere, everyone will know eventually anyway, right?

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 5:35 PM on December 9, 2008

    Ok me and my husband broke up for a few months, and he got with my best friend at the time... It's the worst heartbreak ever! Find someone else!

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 2:36 PM on December 10, 2008

    Its not a good feeling. Find someone else. I mean what are you two years old why would you want to be in a secret relationship. If this new guy is really into you as a women then he would be willing to put it out in the open.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 2:48 AM on December 14, 2008

    Hey listen his best friend is the one sleeping with his ex!! You don't have to feel guilt about whether the person you choose to sleep with will hurt his feelings. His friend on the other hand does and if it doesn't bother your new guy...who cares!!

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