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if your so was very emotionally abusive and some times physically abusive to you but never to your children or in front of them what would you do

  • leave right away and file a restrraing order

    58%
  • leave but let him see the kids

    24%
  • stick it aroudna nd try your best to make it to worek, but if it cant then leave

    9%
  • stick it out for the kids sake

    2%
  • other (please comment)

    5%
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JrsMommy07
Submitted by at 2:08 PM on Dec. 2, 2008
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if your so was very emotionally abusive and some times physically abusive to you but never to your children or in front of them what would you do

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JrsMommy07
Submitted by at 2:08 PM on Dec. 2, 2008
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  • jaylens_mo...
    Submitted by   at 9:08 PM on December 2, 2008

    i would tell him he needs to change and if he dont hes outta here but i would only let him see the kids if another man was there to prtect me and the kid

  • momofthree...
    Submitted by   at 4:09 PM on December 3, 2008

    my husband would never hit me, he knows and understands the consequences

  • J.Lily
    Submitted by   at 9:35 PM on December 3, 2008

    I left a situation like that, although I was 7mo preg by him so in effect by abusing me he was abusing our child as well.

  • hannahk
    Submitted by   at 11:52 PM on December 3, 2008

    If he is abusing you in any way shape or form you need to leave the situation with your children! If he does that to you, in time he may to that to them. If he treats you like that and they see it/hear it they will learn to treat women like that too- may internalize the damage. Be strong! Don't confront him, just leave.

  • dddd2776
    Submitted by   at 2:38 AM on December 4, 2008

    Give him a taste of his own medicine. But that is just me.

  • bratzmommy
    Submitted by   at 9:41 AM on December 4, 2008

    even if he is not doing it in front of the kids or abusing themthey still can tell that there is a problem.to keep yourself and your children in that type of situation is wrong.don't stay for the sake of your children to have a two parent home.that s so wrong.it will only anger your children more later on in life do whats best for them and that is to amke sure that they are in a safe home and that there mom is happy.

  • ladywhynot...
    Submitted by   at 6:47 PM on December 4, 2008

    Get immediate counseling

  • kenziesmom...
    Submitted by   at 8:05 PM on December 4, 2008

    Ive been there I left and he has suprevised vists only

  • jcsmummy
    Submitted by   at 10:18 PM on December 4, 2008

    a man that hits a women is not a man but an insecure pathetic excuse for a boy who still needs his mommy to put hin inline. If a woman stays she is enabling this immaturity and will probably get hurt... severely...abuse is abuse and 'sorry' doesnt cut it...

    ps husband answered this poll... i happen to agree.

  • nightowlma...
    Submitted by   at 3:36 PM on December 5, 2008

    Get out of the house and take kids with you! Let the state decide if he gets to see the kids

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