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My hubby actually said this to me last night. It hurt me so bad, it was a really deep blow...and he doesn't realize how bad it hurt. I just want to know what other's reactions would have been/would be.

How would you feel if your SO told you that he doesn't care about what you do all day, as long as he doesn't have to get off his butt to do it? (Even after cleaning the house, taking care of your toddler, being in school all day, buying extra christ

  • I wouldn't mind, he says it all the time, he's usually joking around./I'd ignore it, he doesn't mean it.

    6%
  • I would be a little hurt, but not enough to ruin my day.

    8%
  • I'd break down and cry, that's a deep blow!

    8%
  • I'd be gone! Take the kids and leave!

    8%
  • I'd make him appreciate things I do by not doing the things I usually do for him...

    61%
  • Other

    6%
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Submitted by Anonymous at 9:37 AM on Dec. 3, 2008
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How would you feel if your SO told you that he doesn't care about what you do all day, as long as he doesn't have to get off his butt to do it? (Even after cleaning the house, taking care of your toddler, being in school all day, buying extra christ

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Submitted by Anonymous at 9:37 AM on Dec. 3, 2008
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  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 9:40 AM on December 3, 2008

    This is the poster, I just realized it didn't complete the rest of my statement. It said:
    "Even after cleaning the house, taking care of your toddler, being in school all day, buying extra christmas gifts for your SO, and cooking your SO's favorite meal...and picking up after your SO, as in "he-throws-his-trash-on-the-floor" clean up, making sure he has clean clothes, fresh towels, and clean sheets, even with the laundry center being on the ground floor near the management office while we're on the third floor two buildings away from the office..."

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 10:34 AM on December 3, 2008

    I'd tell him to go fuck himself, and give him a good slap.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:39 PM on December 3, 2008

    id be really pissed, but im passive aggressive so i would just stop doing those things for him. id clean up after myself & kids, make dinner but only enough for us & maybe before he gets home from work. man i could go on & on but i can be pretty jerky

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 9:15 AM on December 11, 2008

    this probaly wouldnt hurt my feelings at all but I look at it different I mean I really dont care how my SO gets the yard done or fixes my car I just know those things are done....I take pleasure in cooking a meal and having everyone say its good or eat all of it...Me and him just do things different in the house but it all gets done! And also sometimes he does do the dishes or washes a load of clothes here and there and maybe its bad on my part but I look at it as well he should have helped and I dont always say thank you...we are both guilty on both sides of not always showing our appreciation.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 4:48 AM on December 14, 2008

    Grow a backbone. I wouldn't stay with someone who spoke to me like that for 2 seconds. How do people end up with such low standards that they would put up with that kind of shit?

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 4:54 PM on December 15, 2008

    I would shut down this popsicle stand would be closed he is a grown ass man if he wants it done and isn't going to be thankful that I have done it for him then he will learn the meaning of work and tired because I won't do shit for him I will cook for me and the children I will only clean their and my things if he wants food clean clothing and sex he will have to do it himself and if that doesn't ring any bells I will get a job save money and peace out!! I am FAR TO FAB to waste my efforts on a lout like him!!!

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 5:02 PM on December 22, 2008

    i am use to it. if i don't do the things it sits for weeks and it just doesn't get done at all. but he does work 6 to seven days from 5:30 to sometimes 10. sometimes he works 48 hours strait. and i don't work.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 5:47 PM on December 23, 2008

    I wouldnt do shit for him for awhile and see how he likes it!

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 2:12 PM on December 24, 2008

    You need to let a man be a man..

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 5:39 PM on December 26, 2008

    Sounds like he is a hard worker and provides for his family but that is no excuse for him to disrespect you like that. He needs to realize that you work hard too to keep that house running. Go on strike. Does he still love you?. or Are you two just comfortable with you living situation?.

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