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My boyfriends ex called him lastnight. We have been together for almost a year, and she has never called before. She was drunk and 'drunk dialing.'

He has told me before that she broke his heart. She cheated on him, and that is why they broke up.

I totally trust my boyfreind, but I don't trust her intentions. His reasoning to why it isn't that big of deal is that she married. But she has been married before and cheated on her husband as well.

He didn't leave the room to talk to her, and he told her almost immediatly that he had a girlfriend now. But he invited her to come over andhang out with us anytime that she wanted.

He made sure to let her know that he had moved on, and told her that she hadn't burned her bridge with him. That her cheating on him didn't concern him anymore, because he was so happy with me.

I am not really pissed, but I am wonderin

Should I be mad? Read despcripstion above.

  • Hell yeah! I would be pissed!

  • Nah, if you trust him, then I wouldn't worry.

  • I would be a little unhappy.

  • Other, please explain.

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Submitted by at 12:31 PM on Dec. 5, 2008
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Submitted by at 12:31 PM on Dec. 5, 2008
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  • lunaticmom...
    Submitted by   at 12:36 PM on December 5, 2008

    no I wouldn't let it bother me that much... I'd cuss her under my breath a little. But since he talked to her in front of you and told her about you, Then he has moved on..

  • bethany653
    Submitted by   at 11:36 PM on December 5, 2008

    I'd be mad.. Not furious, but mad. Why did he feel the need to tell her she can come over anytime? I just don't think exes in the picture are generally a good idea, but JMO. GL!

  • zombie_mom...
    Submitted by   at 5:26 AM on December 6, 2008

    "But he invited her to come over andhang out with us anytime that she wanted."

    I would be furious over THAT. I would NOT want her around HIM while around ME. I don't roll like that. She's a drunk dialer, and a married cheater. He shouldn't be around her, she's no good.

  • momof2copl...
    Submitted by   at 11:20 AM on December 7, 2008

    I wouldn't be happy about it, but you can't control her. Make sure he knows its not cool with you. Then drop it if hes truly trustworthy it should be OK

  • Alisha76
    Submitted by   at 9:02 PM on December 8, 2008

    I wouldn't be pissed, but a little upset that he just up and invited her over. Even though she knows he has moved on. He should have asked you first, how you would feel about her coming over.

  • unsuspecte...
    Submitted by   at 5:04 PM on December 12, 2008

    MY opinion ... the ex is a cheater, she didn't care about ruining her own relationships, she's not going to care about possibly ruining yours. If you are comfortable with him talking to her and remaining friends, that's your deal. Advice: he shouls only talk to or see her with you there! But if any part of you is not comfortable with it ... YOU NEED to talk to him about it. Hopefully he will stand by you and it's not unreasonable for him to tell her "I'm ahppy with my girlfriend and she and I don't think that a relationship with you is appropriate."

  • nikkilyn
    Submitted by   at 5:45 PM on December 12, 2008

    I would be unhappy! I think you should let sleeping dogs lie. If he has truly moved on he should just leave things in the past.

  • amy_k_in_p...
    Submitted by   at 7:12 PM on December 12, 2008

    I'd be unhappy, but not about the fact that she called or he answered. I'd be unhappy about him inviting her to hang out with you guys! He seems honest, like not leving the room, talking right in front of you, and making sure she knew that he was happy with you.

  • Shelly123
    Submitted by   at 7:35 PM on December 13, 2008

    It was certainly rude of her to call, and him also for inviting her. If he has truely moved on, why would he first invite her to hang out with you of all people and secondly not consult with you first, that was inconsiderate. Moving on means, I forgive or Im over the hurt, its not necessary to hang out especially with a person with a track record like hers. Hes asking for trouble and you know it, there is no way you are going to be comfortable in her presence. That Cat is on the prowl and just because he spoke to her in your presence means nothing, hes no fool, what was he gonna say "Im not happy" A polite "I wish you well, but please dont call me again, Thank you. Would have been the right thing to do out of respect for you, and the relationship, Thats what it means to MOVE ON. good luck.

  • gcmomx3
    Submitted by   at 8:22 PM on December 13, 2008

    I would be upset more than he invited her over than anything

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