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If your husband/ BF/ SO, goes to strip clubs, do you think they are more prone to cheat?

  • Noway, it's all in fun, and makes our sex life better

    17%
  • Def., if I was enough for him, why would he need to go to a strip club, to see other girls?

    26%
  • I go w/ him, and buy us both a lap dance. He'd have no reason to cheat.

    14%
  • I'm totally against strip clubs, he knows it, and if he went it would be behind my back, he'd have to lie about it, and if he lied about it, then why wouldn't he cheat?

    24%
  • Undecided

    10%
  • Other

    6%
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HappyEndin...
Submitted by at 1:20 PM on Dec. 8, 2008
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If your husband/ BF/ SO, goes to strip clubs, do you think they are more prone to cheat?

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HappyEndin...
Submitted by at 1:20 PM on Dec. 8, 2008
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  • HappyEndin...
    Submitted by   at 1:27 PM on December 8, 2008

    Nothing against strippers, but I personally don't want my husband going to see them. We share enough things in our own home, between the 2 of us, to keep things spicy. For his bacholor party I told him I wasn't going to a strip club, and I didn't want him to go to one. He went anyway, lied about it, and it caused a huge fight between us. My reasoning is that he lied to me, and why should he need to go see other women get naked, when he's got me at home, for free, and I'm not a prude by any means. If a guy is single and wants to go, or is w/ a woman who enjoys going, or doesn't care then whatever, but if you're in a relationship w/ a women who doesn't agree w/ it, then it's disrespectful. No disrespect, just my opinion

  • mamak57
    Submitted by   at 2:05 PM on December 8, 2008

    nope some men just do not cheat it ain't the strip club that makes them drop their britches
    the strippers are not as pretty as they look on TV

  • AmaliaD
    Submitted by   at 3:41 PM on December 8, 2008

    i say absolutely! think about it,,, your man wants to see other women naked so that means he wants to see other women naked... if you dont get that, it is a hopeless arguement. and a lotta strip clubs are brothels too. just an fyi.

  • gjcarr003
    Submitted by   at 5:11 PM on December 8, 2008

    If my husband wants to see a woman strip, he's got me. If he wants to go hang out with the guys, go to a bar, not a strip club. I think it's disrespectful to our marriage.

  • mamak57
    Submitted by   at 7:04 PM on December 8, 2008

    Once when hubby was having a drink at the nearest club i got a sitter and went to surprise him. I sat down next to him and with out even looking in my direction he said" no thanks i am married and just here for a drink" i said" Right answer"


    so i have no fear of him cheating on me just cause he is at a strip joint and yes i strip for him at home and we still have a healthy sex life after 30 years. if they are going to cheat they will do it anywhere strip clubs do not cause it

  • HappyEndin...
    Submitted by   at 8:04 PM on December 8, 2008

    I don't think strip clubs cause men to cheat, however it's a line of behavior that can lead to temptation or point out a line that they may be traveling toward another woman. If they need to see another woman naked, besides you, especially if it's behind your back, it may mean that they aren't satisfied. I'm not saying all men can't resist temptation or that they go to strip clubs because they aren't satiisfied, I'm just saying that it's a possiblility. I have also talked to a few strippers, on here no less that have mentioned that it's not taboo for a stripper to have sex w/ a customer. They all don't but enough do to make ya worry. sigh

  • arika06
    Submitted by   at 1:43 AM on December 9, 2008

    my hubby chooses not to go to strip clubs because for 1 he thinks that the women are nasty... and 2 i give him pretty much whatever he wants... he doesnt feel the need to go and waste money to see a woman naked when he has me and porn at home

  • BabydollJe...
    Submitted by   at 10:43 PM on December 11, 2008

    I think it is wrong.. its not neccesarily meaning the strip club itself makes the man cheat but as someone said above some of those are places you can have sex with the strippers.. i personally would feel degrated if my fiance went to one.. i don't see the point.. I agree with alot of you who said they have you.. i feel my fiance has me why would he need to go there and plus its a waste of freaking money!! I could go on and on about this subject.. i mean why does a guy have to go there anyway especially when he has a wife/gf/fiance and children?

  • Laura1229
    Submitted by   at 12:46 PM on December 13, 2008

    My husband doesn't go to strip clubs. I haven't "forbade" him to go to them or anything... I've just mentioned how hard it'll be for him to find & pay for a babysitter so that he could keep going to strip clubs after I divorce him, take the house, and make the kids go live with him. :-)

    Apparently, he'd rather just stick with the boobies he has at home.

  • youngmum87
    Submitted by   at 8:50 PM on December 14, 2008

    I feel that if he has me then I should be enough if he wants more spice we can rent a video and watch it together, but never behind my back by himself. Plus why would I want to have our money go to some strange girl/woman dancing for strangers? Ive got nothing against them for other people but I do whatever my man needs in the bedroom so he shouldnt look twice at another girl, and he doesnt. : )

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