My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. He has a nine year old son who I have not met. The little boy doesnt even know about me. I was thinking about getting the boy maybe a set of UNO cards and color penicls and sketch pad or somet

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angie729
Submitted by at 8:45 PM on Dec. 10, 2008
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. He has a nine year old son who I have not met. The little boy doesnt even know about me. I was thinking about getting the boy maybe a set of UNO cards and color penicls and sketch pad or somet

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angie729
Submitted by at 8:45 PM on Dec. 10, 2008
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  • nebcutie
    Submitted by   at 9:46 PM on December 10, 2008

    I would but ask him first before putting your name on it. Even if he wants to leave your name off of it he will know you thought about his kid.

  • MonkeymomO...
    Submitted by   at 1:33 PM on December 13, 2008

    HAve you ever thought of asking him why you've never met his son, because 2 years seems good enough two trust someone with their personal life. But if you don't want to do that just ask your boyfriend what his son might like.

  • jkurland
    Submitted by   at 9:05 PM on December 13, 2008

    Nice thought, but why haven't you met his son after 2 years and he doesn't even know about you? I'd be questioning that one first.

  • summerdayz
    Submitted by   at 10:30 AM on December 16, 2008

    I would also be questioning why it hasn't ever occured to your boyfriend that his son should be introduced to you. That's bad enough, but WHY doesn't his son even know about you after almost 2 years ? There's something very odd going on there, IMO.

  • Tired-Mom
    Submitted by   at 6:52 PM on December 17, 2008

    No, you shouldn't get him anything. he doesn't know about you. You first need to meet him. You can get him something if you are planning on meeting him when you give him the gift, otherwise, no, don't give him a gift.

  • BonesDrago...
    Submitted by   at 12:28 PM on December 20, 2008

    The gifts sound nice and simple.
    However, before I bought them Id make sure it was ok with BF and that end.

  • TNGirl420
    Submitted by   at 1:42 AM on December 22, 2008

    First off why don't you know his son if you have been with him for 2 years. That's sort of odd to me. But I would ask your BF before getting anything. After all his son doesn't even know about you.

  • Shaygurl
    Submitted by   at 1:16 PM on December 26, 2008

    i think its a good start at bonding with him
    and u can show his mother ur not just his fathers girlfriend it means u care

  • PtownStarf...
    Submitted by   at 1:22 AM on December 29, 2008

    The boy's well being comes first. Are you and your boyfriend together for life? If not, don't try to bond with the child. If your boyfriend has not introduced you to his son, maybe he isn't ready to be that committed.

  • Jamielynn7
    Submitted by   at 5:56 PM on December 29, 2008

    Well its smart not to let you meet his son til he knows you 2 are serious because its not right to show ur son every girl you date, it could mess the kid up!!! Smart guy i think!! I would do the same.

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