Polls in this category may contain adult content.

Description:
my hubby and I had sex every night and sometimes more than 3 times... but sence i have been preggo he hasnt even touched me... I even caught him looking at porn right before we had sex one night... that made me feel so ugly what should I do

has your hubby or SO changed durring your pregnancy... well has your sex life changed... so they seem scared and you blamed yourself

  • They seemed scared to have sex

    20%
  • They just didnt want sex at all

    7%
  • they wanted it more

    56%
  • you blamed yourself for them not wanting sex

    15%
Take the poll to see moms who voted like you.
Take Poll
Jayden626
Submitted by at 2:15 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
Votes (238) Comments (16)

has your hubby or SO changed durring your pregnancy... well has your sex life changed... so they seem scared and you blamed yourself

Take the poll to see moms who voted like you.
I prefer not to answer
Show me the results first
Jayden626
Submitted by at 2:15 AM on Dec. 12, 2008
Votes (238) Comments (16)

Comments

  • mommytobe2...
    Submitted by   at 1:20 PM on December 12, 2008

    my husband didn't have sex with me for like 6 months because of the year before i got miscarriage we just wanted to be careful
    he was fine with it. then we try it and i spot the next day and it freak us out so we didn't do any until my daughter was born.

  • gcarter
    Submitted by   at 2:28 PM on December 12, 2008

    When you're pregnant it's kinda hard to have sex...and so your husband turned to porn. And now...he might be addicted since he doesn't want to have sex with you. He needs help to get rid of his porn addiction. It's hurting your marriage.

  • StoneFox
    Submitted by   at 12:54 AM on December 14, 2008

    My DF didn't want to have sex after the second trimester. He said it weirded him out. Although I wanted sex, I tried to be understanding and...waited until 6 weeks post partum to start having sex again. I masturbated a lot during those last few months of pregnancy. :D

  • StoneFox
    Submitted by   at 12:57 AM on December 14, 2008

    Why do people always jump to the conclusion that because a man watches porn he must be a porn addict? The woman is pregnant and he is probably weirded out by it. My DF watched porn as well. I won't lie and say it didn't bother me at times, but I understood he had needs and I also understood that he wasn't comfortable having sex when my belly was humongous. Better porn than him going out and fucking someone else. Watch him ravage you once you give birth. ;D

  • Ecofriendl...
    Submitted by   at 3:57 AM on December 14, 2008

    I bought Playboy for my husband for his birthday (Oh and toys!  I love my toys. *TMI*) and we both check out porn (alone or with each other). It educates him on how to please me...and he does learn his lessons. Try is sometimes!!! Sex is better when you are prego...HOW THE HELL DID YOU HAVE SEX EVERYDAY? Unless I am getting mine, forget it.  I am too tired.

  • Jayden626
    Submitted by   at 12:11 PM on December 14, 2008

    I thank you so much stone fox... that womans comment kind of bothered me and got me wondering if her was addicted... he isn't thank you for the advice... and eco to answer you question on how i got it everyday... we are still newly weds lol so it was still exciting LOL

  • drowningin...
    Submitted by   at 11:01 PM on December 14, 2008

    I was a hornball when I was preggo.... he didn't have time to look at porn. lol. Don't worry, though. There's a lot going on with your body, and he surely doesn't understand what is really happening in there. I would be weirded out if I was a guy with a preggo wife. They think the baby knows something.

  • youngmum87
    Submitted by   at 3:55 PM on December 15, 2008

    My guy was a lil worried about hurting me or the baby but he wanted me even more when i was pregnant, It just was always on my terms position time place how long everything if we started and I got tired or uncomfortable he would stop and not be upset about it. The best thing about having less sex is that you can have more foreplay. Make sure you explain to him if you want it that hes not going to hurt you, and if you want to try to get him excited more offten do more for him, go down on him tease him in public or in the car brush up against him when you walk by him, just get him thinking about sex with YOU more often. and he might warm up and realize that under that baby bump is still the body and the passion that made him have a baby with you in the first place. Make him not want to look at the porn.

  • beautymomo...
    Submitted by   at 8:33 PM on December 15, 2008

    didn't have a problem my hubby loved it when I was prego it turned him on. so it didn't take much for me to get some

  • Ellie4040
    Submitted by   at 12:06 AM on December 23, 2008

    Men are all different. Mine likes it but doesn't need it to survive. He has survived two mc's with me so he is happy we will have one at all this time and he won't push me or look at porn unless we haven't done it in a while. You need to spice it up I found because they like to know that even though you are going through changes you feel like when you were IE: dating, honeymoon stage, honeymoon, just married, etc.., just depends on what your sex life was like before and how he felt about waiting a while before you were pregnant...if it changes during pregnancy it doesn't mean you are ugly it just means he is getting used to the idea of the new little one and spending less time in the sac with you OR he is scared of being a new parent...if you two have kids already...think back to when you didn't and try some old things (they seem to like that)

Please Login to comment on this item.