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My hubby makes me mad over the little bitty things and sometimes I wonder why I even bother with him. My girlfriend told me that I excepted him from the start and I should get over it, but the thing is he constantly does the same things over and over and knows I'll be hurt. I tried and tried to tell him what makes me tick, but that doesn't work. Most women I know wouldn't be with him if they knew his flaws. Very bad bad flaws but I love him and don't wanna leave. Would you stick it out or just try someone better?

If you knew your guy would never change do you except it and still be with him even if he does things to piss you off?

  • No why be with someone who makes you feel down and miserable

    45%
  • Yes if you love him you love everything, even the ways he makes you mad

    23%
  • sometimes you just have to except it because you feel in love with him..just let the madness go

    19%
  • other..

    10%
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Submitted by Anonymous at 3:14 AM on Dec. 14, 2008
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If you knew your guy would never change do you except it and still be with him even if he does things to piss you off?

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Anonymous
Submitted by Anonymous at 3:14 AM on Dec. 14, 2008
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  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 6:45 AM on December 14, 2008

    Men aren't projects to be fixed and changed. You accept him with his flaws because you think you can fix them. It's your issue not his.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 10:01 AM on December 14, 2008

    I think it depends on what he does, my X called me names on a daily basis (fat As...s, bitc..h, cun..t, looser & waste), he drank every day & then I found out he was doing meth & I got the courage to leave him after 16 yrs, my s/o I'm with now (for almost 9 yrs) loves me, treats me well & is my very best friend .... He does however do little things that irritate me & I would LOVE to change but I would never leave him for them because the love is stronger then the irritation & I know I do things that irritate him & he would love to chance but the fact is no one can change anyone, the person has to WANT to change.

     

    And honestly Hun, if you're really THAT unhappy YOU are the ONLY one who can make that decision, like with my X, I found it within me to leave & if you want to it's up to you .... Your heart & MIND will guide you to do what's best for YOU :o)

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 5:39 PM on December 14, 2008

    I posted this poll Thanks for the advice so far. Let me say what makes me tick about my man...Been together for over 7 years, he's left me twice in one year at the beginning, I found out he loves to chat online and he tried to meet other women saying he's married and looking rather than looking for friends(we are still not married), then last year I found out a big obbsession he has and appartantly not into anymore(most women that found out would have left him already) and he knows that, and top it off when I got pregnant with our first baby he chatted with women last year and in March before I had my baby so he is trying to do something he's not supposed to. I'm unhappy at times but really happy when we have fun together. I just don't know what to do anymore. I keep and keep saying "this is your last straw, i don't know what I'll do" and then I feel like leaving him. He never calls me names or hits me and he's a great father, just not a good lover. I know I'll never be able to change him or he "doesn't" want to change but I'm fed up...Wouldn't you be fed up with things your man does and keeps doing? I know it is up to me but I just feel so close and have so much history with him.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 6:55 PM on December 20, 2008

    It doesn't sound like you respect him or yourself. You seem to view him as the scum of the earth, but are still with him...well, that doesn't make you any better or deserving of better. If you really think he's that awful, let him go, maybe he can at least find someone who is nicer and treats him with more dignity. And maybe you can find someone else to bitch about and have drama with. Because someone who would talk about their S/O that way can never truly love someone or be good to them.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 3:37 PM on January 6, 2009

    I am sorry if he is chatting with other woman and meeting them then thats a no-no. Whose to say he wouldn't or hasnt cheated.

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