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Call me if you want to know the rest of the story. because I'm so hurt by Him and He continues to hurt me with his lies.. but He enjoys sexing me.

How many Wives would trust or continue to stay with their Husbands if you found out that they cheated on you with their ex-fiance prior to their marriage or when they were pregneat with their first child. But continued to see and have sexual relati

  • Work it out..

    17%
  • Or try to find out what happen with Him and Her.

    48%
  • Or just leave it alone and hope for the best with you both.

    34%
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nk_mitchel...
Submitted by at 4:57 PM on Dec. 17, 2008
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How many Wives would trust or continue to stay with their Husbands if you found out that they cheated on you with their ex-fiance prior to their marriage or when they were pregneat with their first child. But continued to see and have sexual relati

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nk_mitchel...
Submitted by at 4:57 PM on Dec. 17, 2008
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  • BonesDrago...
    Submitted by   at 5:02 PM on December 17, 2008

    If he cheated with someone before marriage then Id work on trusting him again.
    If he cheated after marriage then Id kick him to the curb, especially if its ongoing. ONE TIME might be forgivable, more than that signals to me he doesnt truly love me or respect me or our family.

  • brittanido...
    Submitted by   at 2:13 AM on December 18, 2008

    I'm kind of going through a similar situation...my boyfriend and I are currently going to counseling because of it...but it doesn't really seem to be working.

  • honeyb3
    Submitted by   at 10:18 PM on December 18, 2008

    I think you know the answer that is right for you. I see dump his nasty a$* isn' listed on the poll.
    You deserve better in my opinion.

  • gimperomma
    Submitted by   at 8:52 PM on December 26, 2008

    LEAVE HIS ASS!!!!!!!! YOU ARE BETTER THAN HE TREATS YOU

  • Ellie4040
    Submitted by   at 3:12 AM on December 27, 2008

    I would say that you can take advice from anyone but if you will have to ask this question or even for a second question his trust then maybe you should take a break for a while or try to move on. But it is up to you ultimately and you can't take anyones word for it....people on here can say "leave his nasty @$$." But they didn't love him like you did, which is why I said what I did. You alone can make that decision we as wives and moms can only give you advice.

  • heatherbny...
    Submitted by   at 11:50 AM on January 7, 2009

    I wouldn't even consider having anything to do with him anymore. I don't think that women realize the many consequences of a cheating man. Besides all of the things like emotional stress, loss of trust, etc. there also is the fact that he could give you a disease. If you are pregnant, then you are really in trouble if you contract an STD from the SOB. It's one thing to cheat, but to put someone at risk of disease like that is unforgivable. Do what you want to yourself, but don't make innocent people possibly pay for your indiscretions.

  • lisalmeyer...
    Submitted by   at 2:34 PM on January 7, 2009

    My husband cheated on me before we got married and yes I knew about it and married him anyway. It hurt to hear but I made him explain every nasty detail of it to me and it helped. He didn't make excuses for himself but since I better understood the situation, I decided he was still the man I wanted to spend my life with and one act of stupidity wasn't worth leaving him over. You just have to decide if you think it is worth risking that he will do it again because he might. Mine did a few months back and I am pregnant with our first child. It's a tough decision that only you can make but since he has done it more than once, as has mine, you have to accept the fact that it could happen again. Don't be naive just decide if you are willing to help him work through it or if he even wants to work through it. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you nor does it mean that you shouldn't love him. If he makes you happy and is a good man otherwise then maybe it is worth the risk. We all have flaws, at least you know what his is.

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