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Ok me and my man has had problems load of em. He has done so many wrong things to me, cheated with a family member then he actually tried to meet other women online sayin he is single at the beginning of our relationship, he's left me 3 times in the past, he's hurt my feelings and lying, and sometimes lately he would lie and say he's looking at myspace or wrestling sites online but later I'll catch him chatting and jacking off. For 4 years I had an affair on him, mainly because he never showed me he loved me and HE knew about the other guy too. He tried to keep me away from him but I'm friends with the guy now and have been since me and my mans baby was born in April. I did make a sex video with the other man for him because I wanted to quit what was going on. My man saw it and he was made but we stayed together. Now he and I are having so many problems I'm up to my rope with him. I'm not doing anything wrong and I am open to what I do everyday and show him I'm not with the other man.

Am I right or wrong to do what I did?

  • No your not wrong, you did have the affair but your man needs to show you lovin.

    3%
  • Yes you are wrong to yell or do anything bad to him. He may keep doing mean things but if you love him you wouldn't cheat.

    6%
  • Its so-so..both of you are wrong. you both need to evaluate your relationship.

    80%
  • other if any answers plz

    9%
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Submitted by Anonymous at 10:20 PM on Dec. 19, 2008
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Am I right or wrong to do what I did?

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Submitted by Anonymous at 10:20 PM on Dec. 19, 2008
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  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 10:20 PM on December 19, 2008

    He knows that. Am I wrong to yell at him or hurt him even tho he has done many many wrongs to me and I only cheated with ONE guy and not the town?

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 11:12 PM on December 19, 2008

    obviously you are in a bad relationship and need to get out of it. you need to ask yourself why are going home to this man when you where having an affair with another? Do you really love him? does he love you? Are you just afraid to be alone? Don't let fear keep you with this guy. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship from other side.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:05 AM on December 20, 2008

    I feel sorry for the child(ren) involved. If they are boys, you're teaching them how to be treated and how to treat women, if they are girls, you're teaching them how to be treated and how to treat men. You're both wrong, and immature. Get the hell away from him, it will be the best thing you've ever done for yourself and your child(ren).

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 8:19 AM on December 20, 2008

    This is such a sick relationship. It's one of those if "I only want you so no one else can have you", things. Get the hell out of there and find value in youself.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 1:05 PM on December 20, 2008

    Man everyones viscious this. She an an affair because of the guy she's with hurting her all the time. No its not a relationship of "I only want you so no one else can have you", thing. It doesn't sound like that at all. You still love your man but he's always making you mad? Why be with him? Tell us what does he have to offer you? Is a great father? He sounds like a looser. I would tell him your leaving and tell him that you had enough. You child should grow up better than see you two fight if you do that in front of him/her. He is more wrong than you are though because he still hurting you and you cut the affair off obviously. He doesn't care about you.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:56 AM on December 21, 2008

    Two wrongs dont make a right. Youve heard that b4 right? It sounds like the relationship is very toxic and neither of you will be happy together. Id walk out.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 3:51 AM on December 21, 2008

    Divorce. Fast.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 2:30 AM on December 22, 2008

    You guys are both seriously screwed up! You having an affair doesn't make anything right so grow up and stop trying to justify it being ok! You 2 need to stay the hell away from each other

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 2:37 AM on December 22, 2008

    I would say leave. Your relationship will never be healthy as far as it sounds anyway. Why put each other through the bullshit? I think you both would be happier elsewhere. Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:12 AM on December 24, 2008

    I didn't read the question. I just answered something so this would stop popping up.

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