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So my husbund came clean to me about a few things and now I dont trust him and I would rather be at work than at home. The lie's he told me would have completely changed my mind about us getting married, also cause the lies will change my life for the next 5 years.

What would you do if you were in my situation?

  • Get our marriage annulled?

    15%
  • Forget about it, and stick by your man.

    16%
  • If he lie's once, he will moe than likely do it again...Leave him!

    54%
  • Any Suggestions???

    13%
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Anonymous
Submitted by Anonymous at 5:33 AM on Dec. 20, 2008
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What would you do if you were in my situation?

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Anonymous
Submitted by Anonymous at 5:33 AM on Dec. 20, 2008
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  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 1:50 PM on December 20, 2008

    I say that you should work on things right now. see if there is a change in a few months and if not leave. But me on the other had is in a bad relationship and am very stressed out. I wanna leave my man for some things he has done but I love him and I feel he could change. Why is your man comming clean now? 5 years is a long time he hasn't.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:53 AM on December 21, 2008

    Walk if you dont think you can ever trust him. Its you whos going to have to make the choice thats best for you, but if he broke your trust he may be inclined to do it in the future and expect you to forgive him.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 3:42 AM on December 21, 2008

    Are you already married or getting married? Is it a common law marriage? How bad was the lie? Cheating, a child he forgot to tell you about, homosexuality, aids?

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 6:45 PM on December 21, 2008

    If you dont trust him then you dont love him. Leave.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 5:34 PM on December 30, 2008

    Five years sounds like a money issue if it is a loan on a car or something I'd probably forgive him only with the understanding you must discuss future expenditures. If it was an addictive behavior that caused a 5 year commitment run for the hills.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 3:06 PM on December 31, 2008

      Be honest.. Did he come clean b/c he got caught? If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck then....he's a liar and if he lied once (probably more) then he will lie again. I promise you. Been there. And Anonymous 1:50, Men do not change!

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:41 PM on January 8, 2009

    you married him for a reason and if you think you can save the marriage do so, and if not then walk..........its alot easier to walk than to live with someone as if everything is okay......its hard to make the step to walk but if thats what it takes get it done and everything should fall into place...

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 4:56 AM on January 9, 2009

    YOU NEED TO TAKE THIS QUESTION OFF OF HERE AND REWORD IT. I IS TOO VAGUE AND YOU WILL NOT GET A APPLICABLE RESPONSE.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 3:03 AM on January 11, 2009

    Id say you could try to work it out.. it all jus depends on what you want...

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