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If you and your man wanted a break and decided that you two wouldn't date other people, but you met someone a few weeks ago and wanted to date them real bad and the only thing wrong with the other guy is he is jealous. He doesn' t want you to talk to your formal lover even if you two had children together. My cuz is going through this and she's confused.

Would you concider it cheating if you and your man decided to split for a few months and maybe get back together after?

  • yea if you two agreed on something stick with it..don't date others just yet

    61%
  • No its not cheating because now ur both are having a break

    14%
  • It depends on what you two what out of your lives..

    24%
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Submitted by Anonymous at 2:35 PM on Dec. 20, 2008
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Would you concider it cheating if you and your man decided to split for a few months and maybe get back together after?

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Submitted by Anonymous at 2:35 PM on Dec. 20, 2008
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  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 7:25 PM on December 20, 2008

    If they are on a break and have agreed not to date, then technically they are still together... like when you leave of absence from work or something. If she wants to date someone else, then she should tell her "boyfriend" and then move on, but realize that this leaves the door wide open to date other people, too. However, the new guy sounds like trouble already if they aren't even together yet and he's trying to control who she talks to. The children's father will always have to be a part of her life and if another man can't deal with that, then she is wasting her time on him and setting herself up for a lot of avoidable trouble.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 6:44 PM on December 21, 2008

    My dh and me split up for a few mths when we started dating and both dated other people. Then we got back together. No it wasnt cheating.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 9:08 AM on December 30, 2008

    If you split on the terms that you will not date other people than yes I would say it's cheating. If she wants to be with someone else she should tell her boyfriend that she wants to break up. If after it doesn't work with this other guy and the ex still wants to try with her they can get back together. But that option might be gone by than.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 11:53 PM on January 1, 2009

    Everyone has needs, but you probably shouldnt have agreed not to in the first place.

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