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I've just turned 16 and have a 5 month old. I miss being pregnant so bad. I feel like I am emotionally ready for another baby, and physically. But I'm too scared to act on it.. because I'm so young and know that it will be hard. Yet i feel so empty because I'm not pregnant. Money wise.. me and my fiance don't have much but my family would never let us go without.. especially for our baby. Don't get me wrong.. with this baby we had hardly any finacial support.. but idk.

Baby #2?

  • Yeah.. if you think you're ready. I would.

    2%
  • Idk.. it's up to you. I personally wouldn't.

    16%
  • No.. no matter how much you think you're ready, you're not. You're too young.

    79%
  • Other

    1%
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Submitted by Anonymous at 4:50 PM on Dec. 20, 2008
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Baby #2?

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Submitted by Anonymous at 4:50 PM on Dec. 20, 2008
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  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 6:04 PM on December 20, 2008

    Its good that you want a family and seem to like kids,do it for the right reasons not bc you feel empty.See how the 1st year goes with #1 baby, then decide,they get to be alot of work until age 4.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 7:27 PM on December 20, 2008

    It's just baby fever, it will pass. You're so young and your baby is so young young. Enjoy number one for a few years, there's plenty of time for you to have another baby so don't rush it.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:50 AM on December 21, 2008

    Dont do it! Give it til youre 18 and then decide. Having a kid while you are so young isnt the end of the world, but later in life you could really regret having more then just the one. You have a lot more years to have more children. No need this young. It gets harder everytime you have another kid. Im 28 with two kids and get overwhelmed at times lol

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 1:18 AM on December 21, 2008

    Wait a few years. You've got so many years to have more kids ahead of you, don't do it now because you are too young, your baby is too young, and as you said you are not financially ready.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 11:07 AM on December 22, 2008

    I would spoil the CRAP out of the one you have now, treat him/her like you don't have to struggle. I'm a single mom of two babies, I never thought my husband would leave me high and dry, but he did. If I had it to do over, I would've waited a lot longer to have baby number 2. And I'm 24. I couldn't imagine having 2 kids by the age of 16.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 2:04 PM on December 22, 2008

    I didn't say no b/c you are too young, but b/c it won't change anything. Once you have that baby, you'll want to be pregnant again. You need to accept the life you have and deal with it first. Once both you had fiance are ready and can afford another, then approach the idea.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 2:02 PM on December 23, 2008

    I had my daughter at 22 and she was 10 by the time I had my son. I enjoyed my one on one time with her. Just enjoy the baby you have now.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 7:06 PM on January 4, 2009

    are you stupid?

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 11:36 PM on January 8, 2009

    I would wait. I just turned 24 and have two that are 22 months apart. I wanted another one right after my first DD started walking...so I got pregnant. I should have waited, it is so much work! Don't get my wrong, I love my girls, wouldn't have it any other way...but I feel like I've been pregnant forever lol Enjoy your baby you have and your youth! Having two really young kids is hard. I would wait until the one you have is potty trained at least...I change sooo many diapers in one day! Ugh, I'm so tired of diapers! lol

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:58 AM on January 10, 2009

    Wait and marry your "fiance" then think about it. U can barely afford the one you have now, it's not fair to bring another baby into the world if you already know that. Your family wouldn't let you go without but that doesn't mean you aren't being a huge financial burden on them because babies are expensive. You need to finish getting your education to be able to provide for your baby(s).

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