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My friend is happily married. One day we got on the subject of sex and she basically told me she has never had an orgasm. I was shocked. I mean never! I asked her if she tried a vibrator before. She said she has tried everything and nothing works. She told me she has come to grips with the reality that it will never happen. So my question is.......

Have you ever had an orgasm before?

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  • Um I'm not sure, explain

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Submitted by at 12:57 AM on Dec. 21, 2008
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Have you ever had an orgasm before?

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Submitted by at 12:57 AM on Dec. 21, 2008
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  • Dreamer313
    Submitted by   at 3:51 AM on December 21, 2008

    You just have to hit what is called the G-spot!

  • 1stTimemam...
    Submitted by   at 10:42 PM on December 25, 2008

    Anyone that says no please comment! Thanks

  • lalasha
    Submitted by   at 10:20 AM on January 3, 2009

    I'm not sure about anyone else but I don't need the big "O" to have a good time and I feel like there is to much outside pressure on sexual relationships for women to have orgasms I think intent and frame of mind go a long way I don't enter in to every sexual encounter thinking if I don't come this was a waste of time and I Think that mind set is poisoning sex every where and I know people are going to say my guy just isn't doing it right and trust that is not the case I don't suffer from any lack of orgasm during sex but I noticed one day after I didn't come for whatever reason it wasn't his fault he was great he was really down like it was all for not almost which hurt my feelings because I had a good time regardless and I don't want to feel like it was a failed venture so the point is some people don't come some don't come every time but as long as it is not due to inattentive lovers I think it is fine and women shouldn't be made to feel bad or weird that they haven't

  • Stephie_mo...
    Submitted by   at 4:07 PM on January 3, 2009

    All you have to do is rub your "clitoritis" "nubby" whatever you want to call, (one or two fingers) while your husband is penetrating you (making love) in your favorite positions. Have him suck, lick, and grab your nipples... its "connected" in the sensation and will help you explode faster.
    Get really into it with moving your hips, bouncing your breasts and achieve climax together... hottest thing ever, Im going to attack mine now!! xoxo

  • MamaChamp
    Submitted by   at 1:56 PM on January 8, 2009

    I'm one of those women that just can't O. We've tried everything and my husband wasn't my first by any means so it's not him either. DH knows all the tricks that everyone has mentioned...Some women just can't. I do hold on to that small glimpse of hope that one day it will just happen. But since I don't know what i'm missing, its not a big deal for me. We still have amazing sex.

  • mommyto3gi...
    Submitted by   at 12:21 AM on January 10, 2009

    I didn't have one until I was 25? or so.

  • campomommy
    Submitted by   at 4:52 PM on January 19, 2009

    i voted never though i have had 1, but only 1 ever.. i cant get there, but i silently hope ill do it again one day..

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