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yes i have done this a few times what about you

do any of you do this i was watching a show and a wife told her husband if you change the dirty diaper i`ll give you sex if u clean do dishes i`ll give you sex is it wrong to do that

  • no i wouldnt do that its wrong

    42%
  • yes why not makes him happy and its a way to have him do stuff for me

    57%
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truannmil
Submitted by at 5:25 PM on Dec. 22, 2008
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do any of you do this i was watching a show and a wife told her husband if you change the dirty diaper i`ll give you sex if u clean do dishes i`ll give you sex is it wrong to do that

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truannmil
Submitted by at 5:25 PM on Dec. 22, 2008
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  • Becky1979
    Submitted by   at 9:31 AM on December 23, 2008

    Well, we are not like thaaaaat! But what does happen in our house is I do the housework and he hangs out after he gets home from work... So after it has been maybe a day or two I might say "honey, I have to give the kids a bath, get them to bed, do the laundry and then the dishes" and he knows I won't go to bed until my chores are done... and then I just be too sleepy for him to get any lovin' . So... "If you could maybe do the dishes and throw the wash in the dryer while I am upstairs with the kids there might be a little extra lovin' time for you tonight!" *wink wink* ;) And he gets it done in record time! Plus it is way better than complaining that he doesn't help-- then we just fight and no one gets any lovin' ! :)
    GO FOR IT LADIES--GET THAT HOUSEWORK DONE ;) That is way we are the smarter sex !!! ;)

  • rinoasmomm...
    Submitted by   at 1:14 PM on December 23, 2008

    i think it is completely wrong to act as your husband "prostitute". if you aren't in the mood then don't do it, he'll go jack off and you can get some the next time.

  • Becky1979
    Submitted by   at 2:10 PM on December 23, 2008

    I hope that isn't directed at me. Certainly there are situations where the woman, or for that matter, the man, are bullied or whatever. But in healthy relationships I would never consider myself a 'prostitute'. The fact of the matter is is that he has promised his body to me and so he is not allowed to get sex anywhere else. I don't owe him sex but I do. That would be like saying 'You can only have my milk or there will be hell to pay but I am not going to share... die of thirst first.' Ya know? And it goes both ways, when I am in the mood I am far more creative than him. And sometimes he is like 'Weeeeeeeeellllllll, I don't know' but because I am not allowed to experiment anywhere else, nor would I want to, he plays along. And a lot of the times he is like it! (RedBook baby! RedBook!) Sometimes I am not in the mood-- odds are by the time we are done I will not be complaining... or worst case scenairo, I will have a 'to do' list started for tomorrow :) Point is is that I love everytime I am with him, I love that 2 kids later he still can't get enough of me, I love that goofy satisfied look on his face afterwards and knowing that I put it there and I LOVE THAT WE ARE, AT OUR WORST, DEBATING IF THERE IS ANY CHANCE I COULD GET IN THE MOOD INSTEAD OF WORRYING WHO ELSE HE MIGHT BE WITH. I love that he wants me even if I am not always 'wanting' him.
    Or to put it into a different light. I am a stay at home mom, he makes A LOT more than me. Some days I get a craving for seafood and I get it in my head that I want to go to Red Lobster. He gets home after a long 12-hour day at work and is tierd and hungry and wants to just take a shower and relax. But I want SEAFOOD!!! Well, he might even be crabby at first but he knows, I don't ask for much, I usually let him just chill and he loves for me to be happy. We can't afford to go out often and so I don't ask often. BUT I MIGHT WANT TO GO RIGHT NOW!!! So, he takes a shower, gets dressed and then takes me out to an expensive dinner. Doing this for me takes longer, takes more energy and is more expensive than what it takes for me to make him sexually happy. I actually feel like he has done more for me on these nights than I feel I have done for him on the other nights. His time and his good attitude are important to me and make me feel so loved. Me giving myself to him makes him leave the stress behind, makes him feel close to me and loved and that is important to him... and me.
    So I guess the question is 'Who is who's pimp?' ;) If I really had to answer that I would have to say 'IAM THE PIMP BABY!!!' And he would smile and agree-- He already calls me boss! I know I can teach him 'Pimp'! ;) Ahhhh Lord, the pimp is gonna have him tonight! After Red Lobster now that I have it on the brain... ;)
    (I am going to tell him this whole story too, over dinner and while I teach him his new word...:)

  • Becky1979
    Submitted by   at 2:22 PM on December 23, 2008

    One other thing too I wanted to throw in there. People envy our relationship and how we joke that our kids are gonna grow up and make their owns lives but we are each other's playmates FOREVER!!! People think humor keeps us together. But they are wrong. Humor keeps us having fun with each other but WE HAVE SURVIVED SOME BAD BAD TIMES. Respect is what makes us great. We respect each other's needs and wants but even more so, we respect each other's feelings. He would never guilt me or bully me or anything of that sort. And that goes both ways on every topic in our lives. Period. We respect each other 100% of the time, even if we don't like each other. And if we ever screw up, we apologize. That is our bottom line. Everything else are just details, including sex.

  • angelofice
    Submitted by   at 9:11 PM on December 26, 2008

    I agree with Becky's first comment... and that's how it is with me and my hubby. He works, I stay home. He knows that if he wants some lovin' he has to help me out a little so I don't want to go to sleep as soon as my head hits the pillow. That way we are both happy and everything gets done.

  • x_sabine_x
    Submitted by   at 8:28 PM on December 28, 2008

    My fiance gets sex whenever he wants... getting housework done or anything doesn't matter. Sex is not a reward, it is something that I enjoy and give it to my SO freely. It is my job as his woman.

  • twixyone
    Submitted by   at 12:36 PM on December 29, 2008

    Becky, I like your way of thinking, girl... LOL I completely agree. I'm a SAHM as well and when my man comes home and is tired, it is my HONOR to help relieve the stresses of a long day. I don't ask for help with the chores though, the house is my domain. I will let the dishes go or leave laundry for the morning if it means putting a big fat smile on the man I loves face.....

  • VasquezFam...
    Submitted by   at 3:24 PM on December 31, 2008

    I don't think it's wrong, I do this all the time (plus I love having sex so it's a win win)! What's so wrong with getting your man to do something for you in return for something he likes?! I bet all women do this and for the one's who don't think they do it, you do!

  • modmami
    Submitted by   at 1:12 PM on January 1, 2009

    Ok chores for sex? I don't think that is the right way to look at it. The house belongs to both, so if something needs tidying it is an automatic norm for one of us or both of us to go do the tidying. Now fitting in sex with 3 kids and daily exhaustion...any tips on how to get that done? :)

  • ItalianMom...
    Submitted by   at 6:26 PM on January 4, 2009

    We have totally traded Sex for a back rub or changing the diapers that day and things like that. I don't see anything wrong with it, as long as it's not being done to take advantage of the man and getting him to do EVERYTHING, if it's for a favor then nope nothing wrong with it.

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