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Ever had a misscariage,if yes how does it feel?

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Submitted by at 6:56 PM on Dec. 22, 2008
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Submitted by at 6:56 PM on Dec. 22, 2008
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  • SahmTam
    Submitted by   at 8:57 PM on December 22, 2008

    I lost my 1st pregnancy at 10 weeks. The day I found out I was pregnant I had just a small twinge of brown blood and that was it. I had my HcG drawn twice and it was rising. I had an u/s at 6 weeks and there was a heartbeat.

    At 10 weeks I had a little twinge of brown blood again. It was such a small amount and not bright red I wasn't too scared, but decided to get checked out just in case. I was shocked and so, so sad to find that the baby had died and was measuring only 7 weeks :-( It was a missed miscarriage.

    I grieved for months and then started ttc again. I got a + just about 2 weeks after starting ttc. It was super faint, so I took another brand of test to be sure. It was super faint, too, but we told out parents anyway. 2 days later the test at the doc's was negative. They said to come back in a week if I got another positive. I didn't. I believe I had a very early miscarriage again (so-called chemical pregnancy). I never bled or had a period after that one and 2 weeks later I felt myself ovulate and... got pregnant with my son. Finally a pregnancy that "stuck" !! :-)

  • babymar
    Submitted by   at 9:55 PM on December 22, 2008

    i also had a missed abortion... everything was fine until a routine ultrasound at 10 weeks showed the baby had stopped growing at 6 weeks and had died... i was devastated for about a year... i was terrified to get pregnant again... i went on to eventually have 2 more children after that...

  • AdoptingTw...
    Submitted by   at 12:19 AM on December 24, 2008

    I have had 3 and they were all horrible and devestating. One was twins at 14 weeks. We are adopting from Ethiopia now and believe that is our calling and passion!

  • Assila
    Submitted by   at 2:07 AM on December 27, 2008

    I have had 2- my 1st baby was eat by a cyst- I cramped very badly and cryed for months. My 2ed baby was a Ectopic Pregnancy- I had very bad cramps on one side of my hip and it got so bad that I couldnt walk. Only to find out I was just about to bleed to death and had to have an abortion(not by choice-I think at that time I would have reather died then deal with the pain of lossing a baby)

  • PurpleDawn
    Submitted by   at 4:35 PM on December 27, 2008

    I have had 5 of them. Each one hurt emotionally as bad as the last.

  • sawyersmom...
    Submitted by   at 8:46 PM on December 28, 2008

    I've had one it was emotionally devestating and made it hard to connect with next pregnancy for fear of losing him to.

  • soonermama
    Submitted by   at 9:42 PM on December 30, 2008

    I didn't have a miscarriage. I had a tubal pregnancy. It crushed me!

  • Marine88Mo...
    Submitted by   at 9:51 PM on December 30, 2008

    it took about 3 weeks for it to "set in" as I didnt wont to speak of it....then I thought could hear a baby crying while I was in the shower......I fell apart at that moment. My most precious moment is that my husband picked me up from a crouching position in the shower and carried me to our bed and we held each other for hours on end!! (that just brought tears to my eyes again!)

    Submitted by   at 12:24 AM on December 31, 2008

    Yeah, it is not a very good feeling. Like when i had my miscarriage,after the doctor cleaned me out,she held up the glass jar of my miscarriage for me to see. I have no idea why she did this (i was in the ER) but still it was devistating to me that this Dr. showed me what i had lost! But a couple of months later i was pregnant again and have a beautiful one year old!

  • weezer_coo...
    Submitted by   at 2:28 PM on December 31, 2008

    Yes I did.

    I was devastated but luckily I got pregnant again and now we have a beautiful 19-month old girl. :)

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