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Ever had a misscariage,if yes how does it feel?

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  • No

    48%
  • i had an abortion

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Submitted by at 6:56 PM on Dec. 22, 2008
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  • SahmTam
    Submitted by   at 8:57 PM on December 22, 2008

    I lost my 1st pregnancy at 10 weeks. The day I found out I was pregnant I had just a small twinge of brown blood and that was it. I had my HcG drawn twice and it was rising. I had an u/s at 6 weeks and there was a heartbeat.

    At 10 weeks I had a little twinge of brown blood again. It was such a small amount and not bright red I wasn't too scared, but decided to get checked out just in case. I was shocked and so, so sad to find that the baby had died and was measuring only 7 weeks :-( It was a missed miscarriage.

    I grieved for months and then started ttc again. I got a + just about 2 weeks after starting ttc. It was super faint, so I took another brand of test to be sure. It was super faint, too, but we told out parents anyway. 2 days later the test at the doc's was negative. They said to come back in a week if I got another positive. I didn't. I believe I had a very early miscarriage again (so-called chemical pregnancy). I never bled or had a period after that one and 2 weeks later I felt myself ovulate and... got pregnant with my son. Finally a pregnancy that "stuck" !! :-)

  • babymar
    Submitted by   at 9:55 PM on December 22, 2008

    i also had a missed abortion... everything was fine until a routine ultrasound at 10 weeks showed the baby had stopped growing at 6 weeks and had died... i was devastated for about a year... i was terrified to get pregnant again... i went on to eventually have 2 more children after that...

  • AdoptingTw...
    Submitted by   at 12:19 AM on December 24, 2008

    I have had 3 and they were all horrible and devestating. One was twins at 14 weeks. We are adopting from Ethiopia now and believe that is our calling and passion!

  • Assila
    Submitted by   at 2:07 AM on December 27, 2008

    I have had 2- my 1st baby was eat by a cyst- I cramped very badly and cryed for months. My 2ed baby was a Ectopic Pregnancy- I had very bad cramps on one side of my hip and it got so bad that I couldnt walk. Only to find out I was just about to bleed to death and had to have an abortion(not by choice-I think at that time I would have reather died then deal with the pain of lossing a baby)

  • PurpleDawn
    Submitted by   at 4:35 PM on December 27, 2008

    I have had 5 of them. Each one hurt emotionally as bad as the last.

  • sawyersmom...
    Submitted by   at 8:46 PM on December 28, 2008

    I've had one it was emotionally devestating and made it hard to connect with next pregnancy for fear of losing him to.

  • soonermama
    Submitted by   at 9:42 PM on December 30, 2008

    I didn't have a miscarriage. I had a tubal pregnancy. It crushed me!

  • Marine88Mo...
    Submitted by   at 9:51 PM on December 30, 2008

    it took about 3 weeks for it to "set in" as I didnt wont to speak of it....then I thought could hear a baby crying while I was in the shower......I fell apart at that moment. My most precious moment is that my husband picked me up from a crouching position in the shower and carried me to our bed and we held each other for hours on end!! (that just brought tears to my eyes again!)

  • JACOBSCOTT...
    Submitted by   at 12:24 AM on December 31, 2008

    Yeah, it is not a very good feeling. Like when i had my miscarriage,after the doctor cleaned me out,she held up the glass jar of my miscarriage for me to see. I have no idea why she did this (i was in the ER) but still it was devistating to me that this Dr. showed me what i had lost! But a couple of months later i was pregnant again and have a beautiful one year old!

  • weezer_coo...
    Submitted by   at 2:28 PM on December 31, 2008

    Yes I did.

    I was devastated but luckily I got pregnant again and now we have a beautiful 19-month old girl. :)

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