I've had a fun day today here at CafeMom. I've been initiated into the hate-mail club. Anyone else there with me?

Have you ever had a message like this in your mailbox/chatterbox?

  • you deserve to die

  • you deserve to have your children die

  • you deserve/should have your children taken from you

  • you are a horrible person/mother

  • more then one of the above

  • no, never...that is awful

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Submitted by at 10:51 PM on Dec. 22, 2008
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Have you ever had a message like this in your mailbox/chatterbox?

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Submitted by at 10:51 PM on Dec. 22, 2008
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  • lori9878
    Submitted by   at 11:08 PM on December 22, 2008 seriously got messages like that??? Just for a poll??? Sounds like some people on CM need to either get a life or take a chill pill.

  • mommybug77
    Submitted by   at 11:18 PM on December 22, 2008

    Yep more than one of the above. You know me though & how outspoken I can be. Heck I have been called a child molester for breastfeeding.

  • logansmomm...
    Submitted by   at 11:30 PM on December 22, 2008

    It is unbelievable that people would say such things....I smell hypocrites!!!

  • justanothe...
    Submitted by   at 12:22 AM on December 23, 2008

    Isn't it fun not being popular?
    Today I was told I'm a horrible person and deserve to die and that I deserve to have my children die, too. It's still in my chatterbox if you would like proof.
    In the past I've been told my children should be taken away from me because I don't believe in god...a scenario I'm sure many of my friends here can relate, too.
    Luckily, I learned long ago not to care what most people online think of me. I've got pretty thick skin.
    I actually found it some-what amusing this morning when I found them. And, then, profoundly sad because I don't like to be reminded how cruel and horrible people are to complete strangers. No matter how much I disagree with someone I would never leave hateful messages for them...especially about their children. That's just un-cool.

  • beeky
    Submitted by   at 8:43 AM on December 23, 2008

    Yep I have had plenty of hate mail from Christians I have never even heard of simply because I'm an Atheist.

    Apparently they have trouble dealing with that.  Oh well!  That's their problem not mine!

  • logansmomm...
    Submitted by   at 11:55 AM on December 23, 2008

    I have to say that I was taken aback by the comments.  I used to consider myself a Christian, but want nothing to do with that title after seeing how you got treated.  I think I will find a new way to categorize myself.  I refuse to bunch myself with people like that.

  • Phyreglow
    Submitted by   at 1:08 PM on December 23, 2008

    Just saw your chatterbox. Wow, that was completely inappropriate! Shame on her!

  • gemgem
    Submitted by   at 1:29 PM on December 24, 2008

    Yep I had some bitch send me a message for a friend request so she could leave me a hate message on my chatterbox. Talk about freaking issues & juvenile behavior.

  • lilpunk77
    Submitted by   at 2:40 PM on December 24, 2008

    Wow. That sucks. I haven't had any hate messages or even anyone telling me that they will pray for my "godless soul" LOL
    I wanna be popular too!

  • cmarielin
    Submitted by   at 1:04 AM on December 27, 2008

    I saw the comment she left you in your chatterbox - holy crap. What an awful thing for someone to say!! I'm so sorry that someone had the audacity to show up on your profile just to harass you. I'll never understand why people feel the need to be so rude and hateful to complete strangers. No one deserves to have something that horrible to happen to anyone in their family. People....(shakes head)

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