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I found e-mails on my fiances computer through his you-tube account of him speaking to a woman very intimately and it broke my heart. He says its not cheating, but I say it is! He told this woman things a man should only say to someone they want to be or are with, very intimate.

Do You think if your Husband/boyfriend/fiance was e-mailing a woman on the internet with out your knowledge and was speaking intimately that it is the same as cheating?

  • Yes, Definately

    81%
  • No not the same, they can't touch

    4%
  • maybe, I'm not sure

    13%
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eltacka
Submitted by at 12:19 PM on Dec. 24, 2008
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Do You think if your Husband/boyfriend/fiance was e-mailing a woman on the internet with out your knowledge and was speaking intimately that it is the same as cheating?

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eltacka
Submitted by at 12:19 PM on Dec. 24, 2008
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  • beeky
    Submitted by   at 6:52 PM on December 24, 2008

    Here is my take on things.  If you have to keep it secret from your spouse then it is cheating.

  • BonesDrago...
    Submitted by   at 7:59 AM on December 25, 2008

    I agree with Beeky, if its something he is ashamed/afraid/wont want to show you...its cheating(be it emotional, physical, mental, all of it).

  • Becky1979
    Submitted by   at 8:55 AM on December 26, 2008

    I would end the relationship is it were not resolved. And vice versa for my old man. In fact, I think I would be so hurt and betrayed, it would probably be over before we could ever resolve it. I am so sorry. But you deserve to be with a man who respects the boundries of YOUR intimate relationship. And those boundries don't extend to other women!

  • JabeeD
    Submitted by   at 8:43 PM on December 26, 2008

    I don't know that it's THE SAME as cheating but it is definitely crossing the line, and I would be mortified! But it is definitely something I would try to work out with him before just kicking him out for cheating.

  • learae
    Submitted by   at 2:20 PM on December 27, 2008

    i would definitely bring it up. an emotional relationship could grow into a physical one very easily and quickly

  • BabyMommy_...
    Submitted by   at 3:22 PM on December 31, 2008

    Emotional cheating is just as bad as physical cheating, not to mention his desire for her is obviously there.

  • pinkanfgrl
    Submitted by   at 11:37 PM on January 1, 2009

    OH yes my hubby did it to me one year ago and when i found out i FLEW off the handel i was so mad and so hurt.. maybe confront him and make him feel so bad!

  • caitebird
    Submitted by   at 9:58 PM on January 6, 2009

    I had my husband delete his AOL account. I found him talking to some B**** and I was not too happy about it.

  • prettymama...
    Submitted by   at 11:58 PM on January 7, 2009

    Agreed with the first comment. MY first boyfriend years ago did that. I'm so sorry to hear about that, If my husband did that, I'd say hit the road jack and don't come back, I refuse to deal with someone who has no regard for A wife's feelings, and who is emotionally and mentally unstable. May your heart be mended with time.

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