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Should men say I LOVE YOU first or should women say it first?

  • Men

    16%
  • Women

    0%
  • It just depends on my feelings.

    44%
  • Both should say it to each other.

    33%
  • Other

    4%
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grandmasix
Submitted by at 7:07 PM on Dec. 29, 2008
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Should men say I LOVE YOU first or should women say it first?

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grandmasix
Submitted by at 7:07 PM on Dec. 29, 2008
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  • mom2priceb...
    Submitted by   at 11:26 AM on January 1, 2009

    It depends who feels it first and who might need prompting. DH told me 1st and it took awhile for me to get comfortable telling him. Now it's said almost as much as we have sex lol just not usually at that same time(been married a long time)

  • AngieG.
    Submitted by   at 9:31 PM on January 1, 2009

    My now-husband took so long to say it, I finally coerced him into saying it. Even then he tried to get by with mumbling something that wasn't quite I love you. I think he just hadn't had a lot of expereince with telling women he loved them.

  • aixa00
    Submitted by   at 7:36 PM on January 6, 2009

    He felt like saying it first but he was scared and his friends told me instead of him, so I went to him and I told him that I loved him too. We say it everyday 2-5 times a day or more.

  • theverybor...
    Submitted by   at 5:18 PM on January 7, 2009

    My hubby said it WAY before I was ready to say it.

  • angelluv02
    Submitted by   at 9:59 PM on January 10, 2009

    my bf told me he loved me and his feelings for me b4 i did him .. i didnt want 2 and then look stupid after it if he didnt feel the same cuz guys usually have a problem with the big L word.. so even if they do feel lik they do love u they might not tell u so if u wait til he tells u then u kno 4 real he means it

  • LisaTu
    Submitted by   at 3:44 PM on January 12, 2009

    My hubby told me he loved me after about 3 weeks together and I didn't say it back. When we were together about 3 months he got really drunk and started crying that I did not love him and I had to put him to bed. I is the only time I saw him cry and we are together 4 years. I think I said it to him when we were about 6 months together.

  • fmtb
    Submitted by   at 5:51 PM on January 14, 2009

    It's not a competition. When you feel it, you say it. Man or woman.

  • blu_jeenz
    Submitted by   at 12:50 AM on January 17, 2009

    It shouldn't be about who SHOULD say it first. Or waiting until the other person says it first. It should be about being able to express your feelings with your SO, and being able to tell them how you feel.

  • planchi
    Submitted by   at 5:44 PM on January 20, 2009

    IT HAS TO HAVE MEANING BEHIND IT NOT FAKE SOOOOOOOOOOO EITHER ONE

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