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My husbands brother is married . I just found out that he is cheating on his wife with one of are friends. Who is also married i knew this because she came out and told me one day when we were all out drinking together. Me my husband my husbands brother his wife and our friend and her husband. She told me that she would take her kids to my husbands brother house so that his wife could take care her kids, and would tell her that she was going to the doctor but in reality she was going with my husbands brother to a motel. She has done this more then once i see how she acts like shes her best friend they go shopping together, they go out on family outings together and there spouses are blinded and don't see whats going on. So this is the situation and i don't want to be the person to break the bad news and break to familys up but in the other hand i am tired of holding this secret . what should i do?

Please help! Need your advice how would you handle my situation?

  • threaten her to confess

    15%
  • get another family member that is closer to her tell her

    15%
  • have someone tell her husband

    21%
  • let it come out on it's own

    47%
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Anonymous
Submitted by Anonymous at 10:23 PM on Jan. 2, 2010
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Please help! Need your advice how would you handle my situation?

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Anonymous
Submitted by Anonymous at 10:23 PM on Jan. 2, 2010
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  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 1:24 PM on January 5, 2010

    I'd tell her that if she wasn't willing to tell his wife, I would. Then I would tell him that I knew and if he didn't tell her, I would. Then I'd wait to see what happened. If nothing happened, I'd tell her.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 9:03 PM on January 7, 2010

    have you told your husband, since it's his brother cheating?? depending on who was closer to your husband's brother's wife, either I'd tell her or I'd have my husband tell her, or maybe both of you together. I couldn't keep that secret, and I don't think it's right to. turn the situation around...if it was you and SHE knew, wouldn't you want HER to tell you?? especially if she's babysitting while they go fuck, that's just messed up

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 1:20 AM on February 27, 2010

    I would talk to your husband. It's his brother, they need to talk. After that WE would decide if it was our busniess or not.

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