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Feel free to share your experience. I just lost my first to EP and I'm still trying to heal. Figured this might help me. Thanks :-)

Did you lose your child on your FIRST pregnancy? (ectopic, miscarriage, still birth...)

  • Yes, Miscarriage

    28%
  • Yes, Ectopic Pregnancy

    5%
  • Yes, Still Birth

    1%
  • No, did not lose my first pregnancy

    61%
  • No, but it was a very difficult process(almost lost)

    2%
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PinkDaisey...
Submitted by at 2:30 AM on Jan. 5, 2010
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Did you lose your child on your FIRST pregnancy? (ectopic, miscarriage, still birth...)

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PinkDaisey...
Submitted by at 2:30 AM on Jan. 5, 2010
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  • Mom2Brayde...
    Submitted by   at 10:22 PM on January 5, 2010

    Hey I lost my very first to a miscarriage. Then had a happy healthy 9lb baby boy who will be 3 this month. Next came my ectopic, then another miscarriage and then my happy healthy 8lb 10 oz baby boy who is 3 weeks old! God works in crazy ways sometimes but you have to trust that he knows what is best for you! I know how difficult it is to accept that especially when you are hurting and just asking WHY? I hope that you are able to heal mental as well as physically and are able to try again soon. Let me know if you need someone to talk or just vent to I will listen and not judge I know it's hard and it doesn't matter how far along you were it's still your baby and your just as attached

  • jazzymom19...
    Submitted by   at 11:23 PM on January 6, 2010

    It was a surprise when I find out I was pregnant after just 4 months of marriage. Sadly problems developed in my 8 week and I suffered a miscarriage, but had a beautiful healthy boy 18 months later.

  • Tkelly3
    Submitted by   at 2:26 AM on January 14, 2010

    I got pregnant early in my marriage also, we wanted to wait til I got my degree so I was on birth control. I had a feeling I should take a preg. test and it was positive. I soon found out it was ectopic and I felt like I was forced to have an abortion (even though I know my baby wouldn't have made it). I sought out counseling (it was free through a local pregnancy center) and in the process I found spirtual healing and a great mentor! I found out I was pregnant again almost exactly one year later, I'm glad I dealt with my depression and grief first. I now call him my "Angel Baby" when people ask if I have kids.

  • Bellarose0...
    Submitted by   at 10:28 PM on January 24, 2010

    I voted no but I had something that I thought might have been a miscarriage. Late period that was super painful, dark, and heavy. I can never be sure though.

  • Libbyla
    Submitted by   at 9:30 PM on January 29, 2010

    Sorry for your loss.

  • 1wildchild
    Submitted by   at 1:31 AM on February 2, 2010

    My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage. Now, just over 3 years later we have a happy & healthy 13 month old little girl. I'll never forget about the first though.

  • lilangel25...
    Submitted by   at 4:38 PM on February 2, 2010

    I'm sorry for your loss everyone.

  • Stefanie83
    Submitted by   at 10:21 AM on February 18, 2010

    i voted no but actually i was a month late before, and i think i may have had an early miscarriage. by the time i took a pregnancy test, it was negative, and my period started a few days later. i had never been late before. who knows.

  • jennilyn89...
    Submitted by   at 1:39 PM on February 22, 2010

    My first was lost a 7-8 weeks. It was devastating. It wasn't planned and I wasn't married to the father at the time. I was already an emotional wreck. It worked out for the best though. I ended up marring the father and now we have a very beautiful 3 yr. old son.

  • PURPULbutt...
    Submitted by   at 10:26 PM on April 7, 2010

    i had an abortion my first pregnancy.

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