Polls in this category may contain adult content.

Do you have to be physically attracted to your SO for it to work??

  • Yes

    60%
  • No, it is what is inside which matters

    32%
  • other...explain

    7%
Take the poll to see moms who voted like you.
Take Poll
8firsttime...
Submitted by at 10:33 AM on Jan. 8, 2010
Votes (140) Comments (6)

Do you have to be physically attracted to your SO for it to work??

Take the poll to see moms who voted like you.
I prefer not to answer
Show me the results first
8firsttime...
Submitted by at 10:33 AM on Jan. 8, 2010
Votes (140) Comments (6)

Comments

  • crazywith4
    Submitted by   at 12:30 PM on February 4, 2010

    There has to be chemistry. Whether other people see someone as attractive or not doesn't matter, but if even after getting to know someone you aren't attracted to them, something is missing. Of course, once you're together, there will be dry spells for various reasons and that doesn't have to mean the death of a marriage, but at some point in the relationship you have to see them as a partner and not just a brother or sister-KWIM?

  • yezay
    Submitted by   at 12:19 PM on March 3, 2010

    i agree with crazy. What's inside matters most, but sometimes that's what causes you to be physically attracted to them as well!

  • kansasmom1...
    Submitted by   at 4:30 PM on March 13, 2010

    I think you have to have some sort of attraction.

  • AMO_MHJ
    Submitted by   at 5:49 AM on April 2, 2010

    I agree with Crazy and yez.. my husband isnt the sexiest man alive but thats not why i fell in love with him. I love him for treating me with respect, making me laugh, and being there for me when i needed him the most. I can be myself around him without him judging me. We have problems but we try to make it work cause its what you do when you love ur SO..attraction is just the bonus! :)

  • GoodMomma2...
    Submitted by   at 10:44 AM on August 26, 2010

    I think so, but when you're in love, even flaws are endearing. ;-)

  • WendiWatso...
    Submitted by   at 10:22 PM on October 18, 2010

    There has to be some attraction. but not just attraction. There has to be many things you like about the person. my husband has always been there for me, has always been joking around even before we were together.

Please Login to comment on this item.