Polls and comments in this category are anonymous. Some polls may contain adult content.

Description:
My hubby and I were separated for several months ( I moved out and dated a guy). My hub and I decided to work things out , I moved home and due to the "working out" I became pregnant. The ex resurfaced w/innocent small talk. I considered telling him I'm pregnant before someone else did but some meat head football player beat me to it (said I look like I could be). I'm afraid he may think it's his but I don't feel it's any of his business because it's not. What would you do?

Would you tell your ex, you're pregnant?

  • I would tell him

    60%
  • I would not tell him

    22%
  • I would change the subject or ignore him

    6%
  • other-b/c there's always an other!

    10%
Take the poll to see moms who voted like you.
Take Poll
Anonymous
Submitted by Anonymous at 1:39 AM on Jan. 23, 2010
Votes (104) Comments (12)

Would you tell your ex, you're pregnant?

Take the poll to see moms who voted like you.
I prefer not to answer
Show me the results first
Anonymous
Submitted by Anonymous at 1:39 AM on Jan. 23, 2010
Votes (104) Comments (12)

Comments

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 7:39 AM on January 23, 2010

    I would tell him so he does not think it is his and continues to bother you. Plus it is only fair to him.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 11:18 AM on January 29, 2010

    If he asked about it I'd tell him as if I were excited my husband and I were having a baby together, not as if I thought it could possibly be his. If he asked if I thought it could be his I'd confidently say "no." and smile.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 10:31 AM on February 4, 2010

    I would definitely tell him. If you think that HE thinks it may be his, then chances are he's considered the possibility. And he's thinking either A. I hope it's not mine, I don't want to pay child support or have a kid, or B. I hope it's mine, I'd like children and I should take care of them. Either way, it's not fair to leave the guy in limbo. From what you've said, he hasn't done anything wrong, why wouldn't you want to set his mind at ease? Granted it can be awkward, "oh, um, hey? Yeah, I'm pregnant, but it's not yours..." But which would be worse, that, or having him show up at some family function after the baby's born saying, "I wanna see my baby!!" or demanding a DNA test? See what I'm saying?

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 9:56 PM on February 14, 2010

    The only way I would tell him is if I thought it was his.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 11:46 AM on February 15, 2010

    I would tell him and also tell him that it's not his. If he doesn't believe you, then he can pay for a DNA test.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 9:32 AM on March 10, 2010

    If it's not his don't worry about telling him. If he says something let him know it's not his.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 3:06 AM on March 15, 2010

    Tell him and let him know its not his IF you are sure of that. But are you really sure? And also, you should really cease talking to the guy you got with while you were separated. Otherwise you're just headed to another separation or divorce.

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 12:31 AM on March 29, 2010

    If it's not his kid there is no harm in telling him, in fact he should have been one of the first people you told so he wouldn't have thought for a second that it was his. What if he got excited and happy about the possibility of having a kid only to be told it wasn't his. The longer you wait they more likely it will be that this guy will cause problems for you

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 5:04 PM on May 23, 2010

    You only know about doubt's in your mind.If you positively know it's not his, it's none of his business what's going on in your life. If there's a doubt put it out there and see results for DNA test's.Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    Submitted by Anonymous   at 7:13 PM on August 5, 2010

    I would only tell him if it was his.

Please Login to comment on this item.


Polls

Create a Poll