Nourishing Milestones

Helping moms nourish their baby's growth and development

Holding Your Head Up High
Posted by christina f on Oct. 29, 2014 at 1:35 PM

When your baby is first born, he is literally a little ball of mush. He doesn't do more than eat, sleep and fill his diapers. So, the moment that he starts to connect is a real game changer.  For instance, having your baby lift his or her head on his own is a huge milestone. Your baby is getting stronger and you've both come a long way. 

I remember when my baby boy did this for the first time. He was a few days shy of one month old, and I was walking him around on my shoulder after a feeding gently patting his back. I thought he was drifting off to sleep, but all of a sudden he lifted his head and seemed to be looking for me. What was happening? This once helpless baby was now controlling his own moments and managing to do a very good job at it!

While it seemed like it took a lot of effort for him, I felt so honored that he was doing it just for me.  And while this gesture might not seem like much, us mothers know what a momentous occasion even the smallest of milestones can be. I think it partially has to do with getting a reaction out of this little human being who has been so silent for so long. 

christina f About christina f: My name is Christina Fiedler, and I am a parenting writer based in Los Angeles, CA. My husband and I are parents to a four year old boy, and we are currently expecting our second baby boy due this summer - I always knew I'd have a bunch of boys! I'm so happy to be sharing my personal stories with you and can't wait to get started!
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